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My girlfriend is cheating on me with her ex

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About a week ago I was looking through her phone and saw that she was telling one of her friends she was in love with her ex and she was addicted to him. I confronted her about it, she broke down. She was so sorry and told me she had reached out to him about the murder of her brother and had he heard anything about it. They had been texting and talking for about 2 months so I had our phone records pulled and she was telling the truth about the duration of the relationship. So I agreed to try and move forward.

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If She Cheats, Must You Let Her Go?

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Guy's Behavior. My girlfriend and I are in a serious relationship and she is the love of my life and she still talks to her ex-boyfriend who still wants to be with her. She cheated on me twice with him.

I am trying really hard to get over it, but he just won't let her go. I don't know if she really means it when she says that she is through with him and doesn't even want to be his friend anymore. She told me to my face that she cheated on me twice and started bawling her eyes out. I am really trying to trust her and get over it.

Share Facebook. My girlfriend cheated on me with an ex what should I do? Add Opinion. Drop her like a bad habit. She's cheated on you twice. So what's to stop her from doing it more? Marriage, I hear, can be hard enough on those that cheat. You think that if you have a fight and she storms out that she won't go back to the ex or some other guy? She's not even giving him up. That's not a mistake, that's a big lack of respect to you. If either person cheats, that's a major sign of some huge issues.

And the cheating creates more issues. Let's assume she never cheats again. But she starts "hanging out with the girlfriends" more, or has to work a late more frequently. If you're smart, you're going to have it in the back of your mind that se might still be doing it. And that's going to mess with you and create a lot more unhappiness than you need.

In a successful and happy marriage, trust is vital, and it's kept up by both parties, so there's no reason to distrust each other. Marriage is about a choice to stay with each other. It's a choice to be faithful with each other, and she hasn't keep that end of the deal.

In spite of what you may think, she's bad news for you. Love can sometimes be where you have to leave someone because of them being hurtful to themselves and you, but you still love them. And frankly, you have to love yourself better than what you're doing before she pretends to commit to a lifetime with you. AJtogo Xper 5. It's not her ex you have to worry about, it's her.

It takes two people to cheat and she has done it twice to you. If she has any respect for you and your relationship then she wouldn't even be talking to her ex. Kick her cheating ass to the curb and save yourself a lot of future grief. She may be the love of your life but you are not the love of hers. She probably said yes to marriage because she knew it was exactly what you wanted to hear; and, by doing do, she would get forgiveness for her cheating again.

Do not marry her. Especially so soon. If she cheated on you twice with her ex, she is obviously not over him, does not respect your relationship, and with these problems, it is way too soon to even think about marriage. You have way too many issues with trust right now to be thinking about marriage, no matter what she says. She could agree quickly, yes, but if she didn't respect you enough not to cheat, you think that will change because of a ring? It won't. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

One time can be seen as an accident, something that you can recover from. But twice? That's not an accident at all. She knew she shouldn't go around him but she did anyway.

I don't think that there is a way to get over this, really, and still have a relationship. Even if you manage to push back all your doubt and trust issues, it will rear its ugly head at some point in the future. It may be years away, but it will come back. Who-Knows Xper 2. I commend you for staying with someone who's essentially betrayed you more than once. However, whether or not it's conscious in her mind, by allowing her to treat you this way, she's going to feel like she can do anything destructive to the relationship and you will put up with it.

I think you'll ultimately have to take a stand and tell her that she can't have both of you. Sometimes, you need to back off from someone to make them realize how much you mean to them but then you have to ask yourself, "Why do I have to leave to make you realize this?

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But things are not as simple as that in your head. You have all these thoughts in your head, all these feelings in your chest, all these emotions in your heart. I am sorry you are going through this.

The baby and I are now staying in a hostel until we can find somewhere to live. She is extremely dependent on my parents.

It's nice to pretend that every breakup is a clean break. The reality, of course, is often not the case. As anyone who's been through the ordeal can attest, it's an ordeal full of late-night texts, random crying sessions, and wandering wistful thoughts. Your partner, much as you'd like to believe the contrary, is no exception. So, if your intuition lately is telling you that something just isn't right with your partner—that her attitude towards her ex is far from normal—then, chances are, you're probably on to something.

My girlfriend cheated on me with an ex what should I do?

The Dating Nerd is a shadowy figure whose whereabouts and identifying details remain unknown. What we do know is that he is really, really good at dating. I had a tough conversation recently. My girlfriend admitted she cheated on me one time with an old friend of hers a few months ago. I broke things off immediately, but we kept on talking about it and the whole time she's been asking me to take her back and give things another shot. She's adamant she'll never do it again, but I don't know what to believe. What do I do? I know this is hard to hear.

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People whose partners have been unfaithful to them have shared their experiences of taking back the "cheater". They answered the question: "Redditors who have given their significant others another chance after getting cheated on: How's your relationship now? Having "friend dumped" her ex after he suggested she might like to see her son, the Reddit user confessed he was building a case against her for a "hefty lawsuit". This user concluded that her ex's ex-girlfriend, whom she never met, deserved a "sisterhood solidarity type award".

What do I do? I was married, had been with my wife for 15 years.

By Noballa. She tells you that you have nothing to worry about with her ex but nonetheless, you still have your doubts and would like to get the bottom of the situation. Well, a number of women cheat simply because they crave attention. She might even cheat on you simply because she suspects you are doing the same to her.

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I imagine your stomach feels like it just got ripped clean out. I should know. She already did it.

Some forums can only be seen by registered members. Nine months ago i started dating this girl who had just come out of an abusive relationship, her boyfriend use to hit her and mistreated her I had dated before but i had honestly never dated anyone who i ever felt this en-sync with. We talked all the time,shared everything and 4 months in i was the happiest i had ever been and introduced her to my family and i honestly believed this was it for me and i was going to marry this girl. About 2 months ago her ex boyfriend starts texting her. She tells me about it and how shes ignoring him and i believe her.

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Guy's Behavior. My girlfriend and I are in a serious relationship and she is the love of my life and she still talks to her ex-boyfriend who still wants to be with her. She cheated on me twice with him. I am trying really hard to get over it, but he just won't let her go. I don't know if she really means it when she says that she is through with him and doesn't even want to be his friend anymore. She told me to my face that she cheated on me twice and started bawling her eyes out. I am really trying to trust her and get over it.

Oct 31, - I caught my girlfriend of 5 months lying about not being in contact with her ex. Accidentally caught her lying, the confession I got out of her told me she even met  My girlfriend (30) cheated on me (29) with her ex, wants.

By Chris Seiter. She betrayed you in the worst possible way. Oh, and she did this on purpose. Her heart and her brain both agreed that it was ok to go outside her relationship with you.

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